I love your heart.You have an uncanny ability to sniff out fun, play and adventure.What is already good you want to make great.What is already fun you want to make delightful.And if it doesn’t ruin it, you will invite others into this joy as well.You live life to the full and don’t hold back.The limitations and considerations that hold others and keep them stuck don’t seem to have the same hold on you.You see what could be when most others see what is or what was.You find goodness in the mud, pick it up, wipe it off and hold it close.Often sevens really do love themselves and can teach others how to do so as well.There is no secret to what you want or what you are willing to do to get it.
I turn to you when I am stuck in a small perspective, locked in a funk or just confused or bored.When I want to play it safe, you want to throw caution to the wind.You usually have the outside-of-the-box, creative and a bit risky idea.90% of your ideas will not work, which for many is a “no” or feeling of failure and a waste of effort; to you, it is just another stepping stone to the 10% of ideas that launch the project or group into the stratosphere. When I can’t see, you give me a vision of the future.You give me the enthusiasm that I couldn’t work up myself.Sometimes you have to drag me along, but I will most likely enjoy and be energized by the next adventure or fun that you invite me into.
My hope for you is that you could learn to trust.The fear you have of the difficult, uncomfortable and downright painful things in life is paralyzing to your growth and healing.Over time, all that hustling for fun and the next adventure slides into a stale and even dark selfishness.I know you have been hurt.You have been betrayed and abandoned when you most needed help.It became easier to avoid the pain through getting distracted by what feels good.An adventure is easier than vulnerability, a laugh easier than tears.Your own personal fantasy world easier than reality, and it is easier to shut someone else out, than risk intimacy.Unfortunately, the wake of carnage left in the wake of your “blissful ignorance” is staggering.
But I wonder… could you forgive yourself?Others?God?This world?For the pain that you have suffered?I believe you can take this beautiful, powerful seven energy and wield it as courage, to intentionally move into the pain and find the healing that you so desperately need.Even though it is scary, you can invite trusted friends into your internal world and still be safe.You can be anchored in reality and not escape through daydream and still be okay.Some rules and limitations can actually be healthy and helpful.Allowing someone else’s pain to impact you is the beginning of love and empathy.Are you willing to enter the greatest adventure of all?The path to wholeness, freedom and connection that you desire at your core.
We are on your team.We are willing to walk through the dark with you.Sweet child, we want to enjoy your world and invite you into ours as well.There is safety and nurturing love from those who love you if you are willing to stop and open up and invite us in.